Relationships #3

Sometimes when a girl is giving you the cold shoulder…

Lets say when you text her
(hopefully your not the insecure type e.g. that will constantly call or text her until she replies)
and she does not reply with in the next few hours
(or giving how she usually replies you ASAP if she is not busy)
so you text her the next day
the same thing happens where she don’t reply you…

Don't give up...text her the next day (a different message), maybe it'll be 3rd time lucky...maybe 5th time lucky...

And I don’t think you need me to tell you this but
She might be slightly upset with you…for what reason you need to figure that out yourself, and saying
“Sorry for whatever it is that I did” does NOT make the situation better. It shows that you don’t care and you’re just apologising for the sake of it.
But admitting that you don’t know why she is upset with you and you’re willing to talk to her to find out what it is that upset her will make a difference.

It’s that or she wants
You to make more effort to giving her attention.
To see how much you really care for her.
Or (if she is that type of girl) you could buy a bunch of flowers and surprise her, she doesn’t mind if you feel like a douche in front of people because it shows that you care about her

It’s a little like reverse psychology.

Girlfriends take effort, but sometimes it’s worth it…